I did not change, I grew.
More than once I was told, "You've changed" It always hurt. Why is it that when someone doesn't agree with what you are doing they have to throw out a safety net for their own sake using the word change, especially in a negative setting. Why in society is it still okay that we use phrases like "you have changed" to cover up the fact that you are just judging? Don't do it. If you come up to me and look at me like I have done something wrong to you by living my life the way I know best and say "You've changed." Your going to get slapped upside the head with whatever object is closest. I have not changed, but you obviously have not stop judging. Trust me I know, I out of a million people have been the one to make the dumbest choices. I have screwed up too many times to count and I have let multiple people down. Want to know the difference between your judgments and my choices? Your judgment caused an action that stemmed from hate, I
